How to get a headstone for a veteran?

How to Get a Headstone for a Veteran

Losing a loved one is never easy, and when that loved one is a veteran, it can be even more challenging. One of the most meaningful ways to honor their memory is to place a headstone on their grave. In this article, we will guide you through the process of obtaining a headstone for a veteran.

Who is Eligible for a Headstone?

To be eligible for a headstone, the veteran must have been discharged or separated from the military under conditions other than dishonorable. This includes:

• Honorably discharged veterans
• Veterans who died in service
• Veterans who were buried in a national cemetery or other government-run cemetery
• Veterans who were buried in a private cemetery, but have a grave marker that is worn, damaged, or destroyed

Types of Headstones Available

The United States Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) offers three types of headstones for eligible veterans:

• Standard Government Headstone: A bronze headstone that is inscribed with the veteran’s name, rank, branch of service, and dates of birth and death. This headstone is available to all eligible veterans and is provided at no cost to the family.
• Government Markers for Graves of Unmarked Veterans: If a veteran’s grave is unmarked or has no visible headstone, the VA will provide a government marker at no cost to the family.
• Flat Bronze Markers: A flat bronze marker that is inscribed with the veteran’s name, rank, branch of service, and dates of birth and death. This marker is available for graves in private cemeteries and is also provided at no cost to the family.

How to Apply for a Headstone

To apply for a headstone, you will need to submit a request to the VA. You can do this by:

• Completing the Application Form: You can download and complete the VA Form 40-1330, "Application for Standard Government Headstone or Marker" from the VA’s website or pick one up from a VA regional office.
• Providing Required Documents: You will need to provide proof of the veteran’s military service, such as a DD Form 214 (discharge paperwork) or a military ID card.
• Selecting the Headstone Design: You will need to select the type of headstone you want and provide information about the veteran’s burial location.

Additional Requirements

In addition to the application form and required documents, you will need to provide the following information:

• Veteran’s Burial Information: The location of the veteran’s grave, including the cemetery name, section, and plot number.
• Headstone Design: The type of headstone you want and any additional text or designs you would like to include.
• Proof of Identity: A copy of the veteran’s death certificate or a statement from the funeral home confirming the veteran’s identity.

Fees and Expenses

The VA does not charge a fee for the headstone or marker, but you may need to pay for additional services, such as:

• Headstone Setting: The VA will set the headstone in place, but if the cemetery does not allow the VA to do so, you may need to hire a private contractor.
• Marker Installation: If you choose a flat bronze marker, you may need to hire a private contractor to install it.
• Travel Expenses: If you need to travel to a VA regional office or cemetery, you may need to pay for transportation and lodging.

Conclusion

Obtaining a headstone for a veteran is a meaningful way to honor their memory and provide a lasting tribute to their service. By following the steps outlined in this article, you can ensure that your loved one receives the recognition they deserve. Remember to provide all required documentation and information, and be prepared to pay for any additional services or expenses.

Table: Headstone Options

Additional Resources

• VA Form 40-1330, "Application for Standard Government Headstone or Marker"
• VA Regional Office Locator
• VA Cemetery Directory